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Enemies to lovers
So I got to wondering how other people define it. I selected check boxes since some people might have more than one answer. I mean, *I'm* not even sure where I fall in all of this!
How would you define Enemies to Lovers? (or Enemies to Friends, if you're not a shipper)
Must try to kill each other (or at least want to), or be on opposite sides of a conflict with life-or-death stakes
16 (32.7%)
Rivalries like sports rivalries are fine, but there needs to be a strong personal element and/or unhealthy fixation on each other (not just regular sports team conflict)
25 (51.0%)
Any kind of rivalry or antagonism will do
10 (20.4%)
For me it's about the Vibe⢠- from distrust/antagonism to trust, whatever form that takes
23 (46.9%)
I do not accept it as proper E2L if there's any softening at all - they must remain antagonists
0 (0.0%)
I know it when I see it but don't get too fussed about definitions
8 (16.3%)
My thoughts are too complex for your ticky boxes (answer in comments)
1 (2.0%)
Not my trope so I don't care, but I want to click something.
3 (6.1%)